Saturday, December 16, 2023

When the Grinch Loved Christmas

My father is an inveterate holiday Grinch, and has been for as long as I can remember. He's not a fan of large Christmas trees or decorating the house with lights, he grumps about the "mess" that occurs while putting up holiday decorations, I've literally never heard him sing along to a Christmas carol, and... other than Christmas cookies... he generally grumps about ALL things Christmas. We call him Grinch. Behind his back, AND to his face. To which he will grumble, "Bah, HUMBUG!" 

(In retrospect, we clearly ought to be calling him Scrooge!)

It's not so much that he hates Christmas, but he's not a fan of change... and EVERYTHING about the house changed every Christmas as Mummy, a Christmas PRINCESS, rearranged the entire living room for the tree, swapped out the soaps and towels in the bathroom, the salt shakers and dishes in the dining room, the coffee table books, the tissue box covers... literally EVERY inch of the house had a glittery red and green substitute, just for Christmas! 

There were 17 boxes in the basement, numbered and labeled, that needed to be hauled up, unboxed, and sprinkled about the house every December 1st. It took an entire week! Even after I moved away, I would go over to help her assemble her Christmas house... because it was never a one-day affair, and one person could have never put up all of her decorations.

Every December, us four girls would gleefully dance about the living room, tinsel garlands draped across our shoulders like the finest of feather boas, assembling the Christmas foofaraw and finding more and more creative ways to anchor the precious-yet-disintigrating artificial tree purchase the year she and Dad were married, while he sat grumping in his recliner watching Wheel of Fortune and insisting that we didn't need all that fluff. And TECHNICALLY he was right. We didn't NEED it. But it made Mummy happy, and that glee was contagious. 


I am unapologetically a seasonal decorator. We have 13 bins in our shed; one for every month of the year, with two for Christmas! Our seasonal decorations change EVERY SINGLE MONTH... because we love the constant change and the seasonal happiness! My son is the lead decorator in our house, and Christmas is his absolute favorite. I've barely lifted a finger for our December decorating in nearly a decade, because he LOVES to decide where every individual figurine and bit of fluff will sit each year.

While sifting through photos last month, I found a few that made me laugh far more than they should have. Here is proof-positive that my grouchy Grinch/Scrooge father, DID love Christmas... once upon a looong time ago! 

This post is for my nieces, who have dubbed Dad "Grumpy Grandpa." L and L... here is your Grumpy Grandpa, HAPPY about Christmas!!! See? He DID used to love Christmas, and he WASN'T always grumpy!


Enjoy all of the ornaments, sparkle, glitter, cookies, trees, and silly songs this Christmas! Auntie loves you!



Thursday, December 14, 2023

Books for the Bookwyrm - Review of A Day with Elizabeth Barrett Browning, by May Byron.

My father sold my childhood house. I found out yesterday. We had not even known it was up for sale. Yes, he had said this summer that he was wanting to move and looking at houses, but it was said without hurry or urgency and he often discusses at great length and in great detail many things that never come to pass; and it had never been mentioned again, so I didn't think too much of it. But it sold, sight unseen, and he has less than two weeks to be out. The shock is real.

Yesterday he called to ask if I wanted "a bunch of old family books." This little bookwyrm said YES... and within minutes of returning from driving my son to work there he was on the doorstep, one large car STUFFED full of books and an old barrister bookcase. I will not share how we managed to get that HEAVY bookcase into the house as I neither want to lie, nor cause anyone nightmares. Suffice to say it was an adventure I'd never like to repeat.

Kat and I carefully unpacked the books, sorted those with notes from ancestors from those without, and then by decade, to begin assessing what we had inherited. 

The bookcase is large. It has now taken over the dark corner of our living room, and looms over my chosen sofa. We have organized the books by type, and I will be alphabetizing the books on each shelf today. The shelves are as follows: 

Poetry

Bibles and faith-based books, (this is the shelf at my short-little-mouse eye level) 

Classics

Books by authors I don't readily recognize

and Childrens/Young Adult books

There are treasures here. Newspaper clippings used as bookmarks, and wildflowers pressed between pages. Handwritten dedications to ancestors long gone. An enormous copy of Shakespeare that I used to sneak-read every summer, because I was afraid it was too old to be handled by young people. (When she finally caught me, Mummy told me I never needed to hide that I was reading books, because an unread book is a crime!) A breathtakingly beautiful Christmas picture book from a bygone era. Books I had already planned to read, and books I have never heard of. And I intend to read them all, because - as Mummy said - an unread book is a crime!

The first book on the top shelf is A Day with Elizabeth Barrett Browning, by May Byron. A slim little book, only 48 pages long, it smells like basement, book glue that's gone orange and smells vanillic, and old, heavy paper. The spine is nearly torn free and crackles softly as I turn the pages, like poplar leaves in the fall. 

The book is a sweet accounting of a single day, at Elizabeth Barrett Browning's home in Florence, Italy. There are beautiful full-color illustrations by Norman Price, and the writing has the florid feel of a time long gone. I was there, listening to her son, Pennini's laughter. I could feel the air stir with the flutterings as he handed strawberries around to the Hawthornes and other guests. And with a sigh, and all too soon, the tiny book was finished. 

As there are no inscriptions within the cover, I will imagine that this book came from the Cole side of our family, as Gramma's family could afford - and owned - many books. I am imagining that Gramma's mother, Elizabeth Eunice Cole (nee: Roberts) thoroughly enjoyed this book as a young lady, while sitting under an oak tree one beautiful autumn day... because doesn't she look like she would enjoy a romantic peek at the day of a bygone poet? Perhaps she sat reading this on an old quilt, carried overseas by her father, when he immigrated to the US from Wales. I never met my great grandmother, as she died 18 years before I was born. But I will imagine that this was her book. 


Now to choose another book for this little bookwyrm to devour.  







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